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Halimah Ajibade, Low Entropy Volunteer Writer

From the moment I came into this world, my mother became my guide and the embodiment of strength and succour. I remember my first encounter with her warm embrace, a connection that would shape the course of my life. Even as a child, I could sense her adventurous spirit and unwavering determination. Her unconditional love and unwavering support drew me to her, creating a bond that surpassed all others.

Throughout my life, my mother has been my partner in countless adventures. Together, we have explored the depths of our hometown, embracing the beauty that surrounded us. Whether it was discovering a new place to get less expensive provisions or venturing into unfamiliar territories, each adventure was infused with her infectious enthusiasm and zest for life. The sights, sounds and emotions accompanying these experiences are etched into my memory, a tapestry of vibrant moments shaping my perception of the world.

My mother has always been an advocate for pushing boundaries and stepping outside our comfort zones. She constantly encouraged me to embrace new activities, face my fears and overcome obstacles. Her belief in my abilities provided a safety net, allowing me to confidently venture into uncharted territories. Through her guidance, I discovered that growth and self-discovery lie beyond the confines of familiarity. Each time I conquered a challenge or pushed past my limits, she congratulated me and encouraged me to do more. I remember when I thought I had gotten what I thought was a not-so-excellent score on my university entry exam, my mother saw the score and was happy as if I had scored 100%. She made me happy and later told me that I could have done better but what I had wasn’t bad, and she assured me that I would get in because she believed in me. A few weeks after, the cut-off marks were released and I was nine points ahead of the cut-off mark for my department.

Her belief in me and her support has continued to nurture a resilient spirit within me.

My mother’s influence extends beyond mere adventures; she has profoundly shaped my outlook on life. She possesses a unique worldview that cherishes independence and the pursuit of personal goals. Her unwavering belief in my potential instilled in me the importance of being self-reliant and forging my own path. Through her adventurous spirit, she inspired me to see the world with curiosity and open-mindedness, embracing diverse experiences and perspectives. My mother would say none of her female children would get married without being employed or having a business of their own. My mother would also say that none of her children would have only a polytechnic degree or work for a one-man business, because these were the things that she did and would not want us to do because she wanted a better life for us.

Her guidance ignited a transformative shift in my mindset and values, fueling a lifelong quest for exploration, knowledge and personal fulfillment.

As I reflect on the lasting effects of my mother’s presence in my life, I am overwhelmed with gratitude. Her unwavering support and adventurous spirit have shaped my future choices and aspirations. The value she placed on independence and empowerment has been ingrained within me, fueling my drive to pursue my dreams and create a meaningful life. Her influence has extended far beyond our shared adventures, permeating every aspect of my being. I am forever inspired to embrace the unknown, seek out new experiences and continuously grow as an individual.

In conclusion, my mother is the person who took me on the most profound adventure of all — the journey of life itself. Her love, encouragement and unwavering support have been the driving forces behind my personal growth and development. Through her empowering perspective, she has shaped the way I perceive the world, instilling in me the courage to step outside my comfort zone and embrace the beauty of life’s adventures. I am forever grateful for her presence and the profound role she plays in shaping my life’s journey.

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