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Nirali Bhate, Low Entropy Volunteer Writer

“Being a single mother is twice the work, twice the stress and twice the tears, but also twice the hugs, twice the love and twice the pride.” These words resonate deeply with me. The journey of raising a child alone is demanding, yet filled with an irreplaceable bond of love and strength. It’s a path that’s not always easy, but it’s one that’s worth every challenge.

Every day, I balance multiple roles: provider, nurturer, protector. But the emotional weight can sometimes feel unbearable. There’s no one to lean on when I’m feeling drained. I’m the one who listens to my boy’s fears, comforts him when he is sick and helps him navigate his struggles. It’s all part of being a mom, but there are days when exhaustion makes everything seem harder.

The clock never seems to slow down. Between work, house chores and making sure he’s okay, time feels like it’s constantly slipping through my fingers. It’s a never ending cycle of tasks with little room to breathe. And even when I manage to finish something, there’s always more waiting.

One evening, as I’m scrambling to finish work, he asks, “Mom, can we play a game together?”

My heart aches with guilt.

“Not right now, sweetheart, I need to finish this,” I tell him, even though I long to spend time with him. 

But the demands never stop, nor does the inner voice telling me I’m not doing enough.

Single moms often deal with isolation and the judgment of others. Society tends to assume that a child raised by one parent is missing something vital. But what they don’t see is the dedication, the sacrifices and the love we give. Motherhood is universal. No matter the situation, all moms understand the struggles, the doubts and the moments of pride.

Despite these challenges, my bond with my boy keeps me grounded. We’ve faced our share of hardships, but we’ve also celebrated many victories together. There’s an undeniable connection between us that gives me the strength to keep moving forward.

Single motherhood teaches resilience, patience and strength. Some days, I question my ability to keep going. But then I look at my boy and I remember why I do this. It’s for him. It’s for our future. With every obstacle, there’s a chance to grow stronger and learn more about the depths of love.

One day, he asked, “Mom, how do you do everything?”

I smiled and replied, “I don’t always get it right, but I keep trying because you’re worth it.”

Even at a young age, he’s learning about perseverance, hard work and love. He may not fully grasp it now, but I know these lessons are sinking in.

The other day, he proudly told me, “Mom, I cleaned up without you asking!”

His joy was contagious and my heart swelled with pride. In that moment, I realized that even though it’s just the two of us, we’re building something beautiful. These small victories remind me that all the effort and challenges are worth it.

Single motherhood is undeniably tough. There are moments of doubt, days when I feel like I’m falling short. But there are also moments filled with love, pride and those tiny victories that make everything worthwhile.

Building a support system is essential. Lean on friends, family or others who truly understand your journey. Don’t hesitate to ask for help and take time for yourself. You can’t pour from an empty cup.

Being a single mom is a journey full of ups and downs, but it’s also a path filled with deep love and growth. No matter how hard things get, I know I’ll always get up, keep going and do my best. Because that’s what mothers do, love unconditionally and never stop trying. Single motherhood may be hard, but it’s filled with love, resilience and a bond that nothing can break. The moments of joy and pride are what make it all worth it. In the end, it’s that love that defines your journey. No matter how tough things get, I know I’ll always get up, keep going and do my best, because that’s what mothers do.

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